Hi harmony hustlers, how often do you struggle with setting boundaries between work and play? I think it’s safe to say that whilst some days are a breeze, others can be much more difficult.
I too have been in this position, and I attest to the power of setting boundaries (albeit in hindsight) in order to maintain a healthy balance between work and personal commitments. Without boundaries, you may experience increased stress, burnout, and a compromised quality of life.
Establishing clear boundaries brings numerous benefits, such as improved mental health, enhanced productivity, and a better overall work-life balance.
How can we start setting boundaries
We will work our way through the following crucial tips for setting boundaries between work and play, which are:
- Prioritise time management
- Learn to say no
- Utilise technology mindfully
- Learn to delegate
1. Prioritise time management
Prioritising time management is crucial for setting effective boundaries between work and play . Working remotely through the pandemic surely brought these issues to light, since there were blurred lines between work and home.
To avoid these ‘blurred lines’ begin by establishing specific work hours and designating dedicated time for personal activities. This can be easier for people who work 9-5pm and can clock off at 5pm on the dot. But for those of you who tend to work overtime, or those of you who are self employed, it is very important that you have a clear cut off point.
Once you have defined your work hours, make sure that during these hours you work solely on work related tasks.
If you struggle with productivity during your work hours, which leads to working overtime, you could try utilising time-blocking techniques (for example the pomodoro technique) to allocate focused slots for work and to ensure intentional breaks. These type of habits can promote a balanced and structured routine.
Outside of these hours, allocate time blocks for personal activities, such as family time, exercise, or hobbies. Use scheduling apps to enforce these boundaries and ensure a well-rounded use of your time.
2. Learn to say no
Learning to say no is crucial in setting boundaries between work and play.
Practice by politely declining additional work tasks or social commitments that interfere with your designated personal time. For example, if a colleague requests help with a non-urgent project outside your work hours, consider explaining your existing commitments and propose an alternative time that aligns better with your schedule and accommodates the task at hand.
Equally setting boundaries extends beyond the workplace. For instance, if friends or family invite you to social events during your designated personal time, kindly decline and explain the need for some personal downtime. For example, you might say, “I appreciate the invitation, but I’ve set aside this time for myself to relax and recharge. Can we plan for another day that works better for both of us?” This not only protects your personal boundaries but also communicates the importance of self-care to those around you.
This assertiveness helps protect your personal time and reinforces the importance of your boundaries. This is not to say that there won’t be times where you will be required to take up a particular task or activity, but the idea is to be mindful of doing so if it encroaches on personal downtime.
The crucial principle to bear in mind is the art of suggesting an alternative. Whether it’s proposing a different time to assist with a task or suggesting an alternative day for a meet-up, this approach conveys your willingness to contribute or connect, but clarifies that the initially suggested time didn’t align with your availability.
It’s an assertion that while you are open to extra projects or spending time with loved ones, the proposed time simply wasn’t feasible for you, and that’s perfectly acceptable.
3. Utilise technology mindfully
The power of leveraging technology to help set boundaries between work and play should not be underestimated.
How often have you checked your work emails on your mobile phone outside of work hours or whilst in the middle of what should be quality personal time?
Alternatively how often have you taken a peak at your social media accounts during work hours?
Though seemingly harmless, these habits, when left unchecked, can evolve into significant distractions.
Therefore designating specific time slots for work-related tasks and personal activities on your calendar is a good place to start. You can set notifications to remind yourself to switch gears, creating distinct boundaries between professional and personal time.
A good way of doing this is to mute work-related notifications during family dinners to fully engage in quality time without interruptions and vice versa during work hours. This intentional use of technology ensures a more balanced and focused approach to both work and personal life.
4. Learn to delegate
Learning to delegate is a crucial skill in setting boundaries and maintaining a healthy work-life balance.
In order to do this you must start by identifying tasks that can be effectively handed over to others, whether at work or in your personal life.
This could involve assigning responsibilities to team members at the office or delegating household chores to family members, where possible.
Importantly, learning to delegate can also involve setting boundaries with yourself. It’s about recognising your limitations and understanding that you cannot do everything on your own.
By distributing tasks, you not only lighten your load but also create space for personal time and relaxation. Remember, effective delegation is a strategic move that benefits both you and those around you. The better balanced your to do list is the better you can function.
The outcome of setting boundaries between work and play
By setting clear boundaries in a professional capacity, you’re ensuring that you’re improving productivity, reducing burnout and enhancing your overall job satisfaction. Outside of work, setting boundaries promotes better work-life balance, reduces stress and makes room for fostering healthier relationships with family and friends.
So what are you waiting for? Go and set those boundaries!