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What Is Burnout? Signs, Symptoms & How To Spot It Early

If you’ve been asking yourself, “Am I just tired or is it something more?”, you might be facing burnout. The kind that creeps in slowly and disguises itself as laziness, low motivation, or just needing another early night. In this post, we’ll unpack what burnout really looks like (hint: it’s not just about being exhausted), the subtle signs we often overlook, and why so many women, especially those trying to do it all, end up stuck in this cycle without realising it. Let’s talk about what’s really going on and what to do about it.

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What Is Burnout? Signs, Symptoms & How To Spot It Early
How to Stop Feeling Socially Awkward After Years of WFH
Career Confidence ► April 3, 2025

How to Stop Feeling Socially Awkward After Years of WFH

Feeling socially awkward after working from home for so long? You’re not alone. If small talk feels like a struggle and conversations make you second-guess everything you say, you're in the right place. In this post, we're talking about why this happens and how to shake off the awkwardness.

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How to Journal for Confidence: 4 Steps to Overcome Self-Doubt
Books ► March 27, 2025

How to Journal for Confidence: 4 Steps to Overcome Self-Doubt

Ever wondered 'how to journal for confidence? You’re not alone. Self-doubt can feel overwhelming, but journaling is a powerful way to quiet that inner critic and build unshakable self-belief. In this guide, I’ll walk you through my 4-step ‘Find Your Fierce’ journaling method—designed to help you release self-doubt, reframe negative thoughts, recognise your small wins, and reinforce self-belief. Ready to start journaling your way to confidence? Grab a notebook, and let’s dive in.

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Why Every Woman Should Start A Blog In 2025 (And How To Do It)
Career Confidence ► March 13, 2025

Why Every Woman Should Start A Blog In 2025 (And How To Do It)

Thinking about starting a blog in 2025? There’s never been a better time. Whether you want to share your story, build a brand, or even turn your blog into a business, blogging is one of the most powerful ways to establish your voice online. In 2025, with more people craving authentic content and passive income opportunities growing, a blog isn’t just a creative outlet—it’s an asset. This guide will walk you through everything you need to start a blog in 2025 the right way.

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How to Shut Down Disrespect with Confidence – 5 Top Tips
Self Care ► February 13, 2025

How to Shut Down Disrespect with Confidence – 5 Top Tips

We've all been there when someone says something so rude or condescending that it stops you in your tracks. Maybe it's a backhanded compliment, a snide remark, or outright disrespect. In that split second, you find yourself stuck between wanting to clap back with the perfect comeback or replaying the moment in your head hours later. So how do you handle it in the moment without losing your cool... Let's get into it.

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The One Trait That Sets Successful People Apart
Career Confidence ► February 7, 2025

The One Trait That Sets Successful People Apart

Unshakeable confidence isn’t about having all the answers or never feeling doubt, it’s about trusting yourself to navigate challenges, even when uncertainty looms. I’ve seen brilliant colleagues hesitate to speak up in meetings, while others, with less expertise but more self-assurance, command the room with ease - and it's all down to one thing - confidence! Building unshakeable confidence starts with....

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Shabnam Younus-Jewell -The Sports Media Trailblazer You Need To Know
Career Confidence ► August 15, 2024

Shabnam Younus-Jewell -The Sports Media Trailblazer You Need To Know

In celebration of South Asian Heritage Month, I’m excited to feature Shabnam Younus-Jewell, a dynamic force in sports broadcasting and snooker. Balancing her role as a BBC Sport presenter with competing on the World Women’s Snooker Tour, Shabnam’s story is both fascinating and inspiring. In our chat, she spills the beans on the thrills and challenges of her career, shares what fuels her passion, and reveals how she manages it all. Dive in to uncover how Shabnam’s journey is reshaping the game and making waves in both broadcasting and snooker—this is one interview you won’t want to miss!

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How to Rebuild Confidence – 7 top tips
Confidence building ► July 18, 2024

How to Rebuild Confidence – 7 top tips

Confidence can really shape your path and make a big difference in where you end up. That’s why it’s so important to work on building it back up. It can open doors, boost how you feel about yourself, and help...

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Blue Sisters Review: Is This the Most Compelling Sisterhood Story of 2024
Books ► July 4, 2024

Blue Sisters Review: Is This the Most Compelling Sisterhood Story of 2024

Blue Sisters intricately explores the dynamics of family relationships, personal identity, and the challenges of sisterhood through the lives of three very different sisters. The story revolves around Avery, Bonnie, and Lucky, who are each dealing with their own struggles after the death of their beloved sister, Nicky.

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How to Really Practice Self-Care Without Feeling Guilty
Self Care ► June 2, 2024

How to Really Practice Self-Care Without Feeling Guilty

As women we often resist the notion of self-care, because we truly believe that prioritising our own needs is selfish, and doing so makes us feel guilty. Yet, at its core, self-care is far from selfish; it's an essential practice that nurtures physical, emotional, and mental well-being. 

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Skyrocket your Confidence at work – 10 Daily Habits
Career Confidence ► May 16, 2024

Skyrocket your Confidence at work – 10 Daily Habits

Lacking confidence at work can arise from the way in which reward systems are set into play in the workplace. We often get rewarded for assertiveness and perfectionism, which can inadvertently marginalise women who may show quieter or modest traits. Downplaying your successes or not engaging in as much conversation as your peers, may come across as...

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Unlock Your Critical Thinking: Personal Reading Curriculum 2026
Books ► December 11, 2025

Unlock Your Critical Thinking: Personal Reading Curriculum 2026

If you’ve ever wanted to read with more intention but didn’t know where to start, a personal reading curriculum might be the exact thing you need to get you started. I designed a 3 month curriculum; one that dives into big themes, asks deeper questions, and transforms the way we experience books. If you’re craving deeper reading this year, you’ll want to see what this is all about...

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Simple Wellness Products: Not Just An Aesthetic
Self Care ► May 8, 2025

Simple Wellness Products: Not Just An Aesthetic

Overwhelmed? Drained? I’ve definitely been there. This post shares a wellness-focused reset routine packed with simple, practical product swaps (think: magnesium, electrolytes, even a white noise machine!) to help you feel more energised, focused, and in control again.

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Fundamentally Book Review: Audacious Premise, Offensive Execution
Books ► April 29, 2025

Fundamentally Book Review: Audacious Premise, Offensive Execution

In Fundamentally by Nussaibah Younis, dark comedy meets political fiction. But does its satirical tone deepen the conversation on radicalisation, or risk undermining the very faith it touches? Let's talk about it!

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Protect Your Energy: Best Books to Set Boundaries Confidently
Books ► April 14, 2025

Protect Your Energy: Best Books to Set Boundaries Confidently

If you’re feeling drained or like you’re giving more than you’re getting, it’s time to protect your energy. In this post, I’m sharing the best books to help you set boundaries, put yourself first, and feel more like you again.

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